Pondering the Mysteries of Life

Here we are at the end of another year.  Older and arguably wiser, although some might contest that assumption. 

At this time I always begin to reflect over the events of the past year from a forest/trees perspective.  That is, I try to step back and see how the events of the year have fit into the whole of my life.  Like the tapestry analogy which we have all heard, what have the events of my year contributed to the "picture" being formed by my living. 

• Did I make good choices?  
• Have I done anything which benefits others: eg my family, my friends, my co-workers, my fellow church goers, humanity in general?  
• Have I remained true to my values?  If not where am I slipping . . . and why?  
• What challenges did I face, and did I do so with God's grace and courage, or did I flee and hide.  
• Have I hurt someone.
• Would anyone say that their life has been blessed because of something I have done or said?
• Did I reach the goals I set for myself, and if not, why not?
• What new goals should be part of this new year . . . and what is my plan to realize those goals?

I hope you ask yourself these questions, too.  That is really one of the major things which continues to define us as being made in His image, i.e. that we care about how we have and are connecting with each other.  After all, if you can't lead yourself, you will eventually fail in your attempts to lead others.