How does one go about communicating leadership principles in practical ways with those who follow? Obviously the visible living out of those principles can be observed and perhaps emulated by followers. Over a long enough period of time such example could result in transformed behavior in the life of an observant follower. But observing can only teach so much, particularly if the observation is clouded by personality which is flawed by ego, as is so often the case.

Leadership is more than simply knowing principles, however, it is also about people and trust. It is about focus, but not JUST focus. Focus without trust and a concern for people (more than simply mouthed platitudes) comes out feeling and looking a lot like tyranny.

In addition to demonstrating leadership principles in real-time situations, allowing those who follow the opportunity to fail as they learn to lead, while expressing support and confidence, may be an example of true transformative leadership.

What is unfortunate is when a leader's perception is that he/she is a transformative leader when in actuality a tyrant is closer to the truth. In this situation those who follow must either endure, weighing their commitment to the organization and it's values against the climate produced by such leadership, or disengage at whatever level necessary to find balance.

On November 14, 2005 I wrote: "Let's think about leadership in terms of an accumulation of skill sets. The acquisition of those skill sets will enhance the ability of the leader to move the organization toward the goal. Instead, then, of concentrating on moving to a different level of leadership, a better path to effective leadership might be to identify the skill sets needed to be effective, and to acquire those skill sets (which might also include bringing individuals around you who can supplement your weaknesses if the skill set is beyond your ability or would require excessive time to acquire)."

Let's suppose this is true. Then one of the key characteristics of a leader would have to be the ability to be able to "see the big picture." To see situations and problems in a larger context AND to then to know which skill sets apply (intuitively), and either pull those out of their accumulated kit (acquired through knowledge and experience) or pull in those who have the necessary skill set. Leadership then would have less to do with influence and more to do with a kind of disassociation. By that I mean the ability to disassociate oneself from the immediate and step back to see the greater good, keeping in mind the mission and strategic planning. Now let's add another big word - integration. The best leaders are those who can disassociate WHILE remaining integrated with the human side of the context.

As we develop this thought it is interesting that we are actually constructing a new leadership model which truly allows the possibility of becoming a leader in actuality rather than just theory. Learning to see things globally, while difficult, can be learned. Acquiring the various leadership skill sets can be difficult, but can be accomplished by most. Like learning a new language, learning the pieces (nouns, verbs, conjugations, etc.) comes before fluency and fluency in enhanced by the ability to actually think in the new language. Leadership is like that, what seems mechanical and awkward at first with practice becomes intuitive and reflexive. Let me tell you a secret which is the starting point - stop talking and listen.