Monday, June 25, 2012

Everyone has a Story

I woke up in the middle of the night with these thoughts swirling around in my head:
  • Everyone has their own story
  • Every story matters, to the individual and to those within their circle of influence
  • Every story is unique, based off
    • Characters in the story and their interaction with the main character
    • Choices made by the main character.
      • Choices are motivated by:
        • Money, or desire for what money can purchase
        • Sex, or the desire for physical intimacy
        • Power
        • Love, or the desire to be loved/cared for/valued 
        • Hate
      • Choices can have a profound impact upon the story sometimes far beyond the seeming significance of the choice itself
      • With discipline it is possible to intentionally make better choices with better outcomes
  • Every story is ultimately about relationship
    • We exist within a framework/spiderweb of relationships with all of the characters in our story touching and changing us, and being changed by us.
    • We can, but often do not, choose the nature of our impact upon others.
    • We cannot chose the nature of the impact of others upon us, BUT we can choose, but often do not, our reaction to the impact of others in our life.
  • Everyone is part of other people's stories, 
    • for some it is a significant overlap as with a spouse wherein they "become one flesh" 
    • and with others is is the merest brush like that of a butterfly 
    • every touch, no matter how small leaves a mark
  • Every relationship is a reflection of our relationship with God

Focus on the choices you make each day - think about them in relationship to others and your own life story.

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